Staying Positive

For the last oneness gathering at work, the topic kept was 'Staying Positive'. Although we didn't get to discuss it in details but this has been in mind for some quite time now.

While pondering over the topic, I also happened to question a few friends about what they do to keep themselves positive? The answers ranged from meditation to keeping company of positive friends, avoiding negative people etc etc. Not surprisingly, the answers were very common indeed. 

And to be honest, it wasn't different for me either.

If I were to answer the same question, I would have said by keeping company/awareness of God Almighty who is the source of all positivity. The more we keep awareness of His presence, the more positive we tend to be.

A fellow devotee had once recited these lines:

'Maar deti hai meri soch har baar mujhe, Mujhe har dafaa zindaa tera ik khyal kare'

I think these lines sum up everything - the mind plays its own game where we come into loop of negative thoughts. In the same flow of thoughts if we pick up only one thought of His grace and blessings, everything calms down. Automatically positivity comes back. There is no more effort needed. 

One thought of gratitude gives so much comfort that in the same situation we feel the power of balance. Such is the effect of His company.

May we be full of awareness and always in gratitude that we remain positive, may we reflect positivity and be of use!

Lift to LEVEL 0

Although the office is just one floor above the parking level, I take lift these days. Reason being faulty door that leads to the stair case.

I have been using lift for week or so now, and have also used it in past but yesterday something caught my attention - the safety advisory inside the lift which read:

"Life is equipped with automatic recovery mechanism. Do not Panic."

Something didn't fit in, I had to re-read the board and this is what I read on second attempt:

"Lift is equipped with automatic recovery mechanism. Do not Panic."

Now, this made some logic. When you are inside in the lift, you are bound to get some instructions on using the lift.

I couldn't control my smile on what I had read at first. Perhaps a reminder to tell me that there is nothing to panic.

As I often do, I was caught up in some thoughts about xyz thing which I can't remember now. But I'm sure I was not at ease. And this reminder made me ponder, do I really need to be serious of the current situation? After all Life is in an automatic recovery mode where God is doing everything to ensure that the travel in human form would continue happily and without any hiccups. However the only hiccups I witness are due to my panicking. All we need to do at times is just give it some time.

I recall Bro telling me there is no problem showing that you are concerned, but do not be concerned. We are likely to feel the pressure of the situations, but how well we can cope up is our own ability. The more attached we are to the situation, chances are more panic we would create but if we understand this too shall pass, same situation does not harm us.

However easier said than done! 

But I pray, I hope, I wish that our faiths be strong enough to keep us walking. And source of this strength is none other than You. 

Therefore hold my hand as I travel through this human lift! I mean human life.

Ram Rajya

I remember the old days when a dear friend used to often comment that Sunil you are talking of 'Ram Rajya'.

His comment was not on the stories that I would tell him of Lord Rama's time but on the discourses and talks which I shared from Sangat. I could understand his psychology which was based on how the world was around but fortunately I was shown another world too.

I'm glad that over the period of time he has been able to appreciate the message of the Mission. On a recent trip to Delhi, the above old conversation between friends came back to my mind. When? Here it is when....

I was standing in a long queue to get some eatable from canteen at Nirankari Samagam. As soon as I reached the counter I was told that the item that I was standing to get was to be bought in coupons of Rs.12. However I was only carrying coupons for Rs.10.

Since the queue was long I could not understand what would be the appropriate action at that point of time. Should I go and purchase additional coupons for Rs. 2 and stand back in the long queue again? Or should I request the saint to take Rs. 2 change in addition to the Rs. 10 coupons and give me the item?

Before I could decide on any appropriate action this saint himself offered to give me the item in exchange of Rs. 10 coupons and asked me to get Rs. 2 coupon from the coupon counter. As soon as I heard this  I became a bit relaxed, and started to think that I would come back and hand over the Rs. 2 coupon to this Saint. Caught up in my own thoughts I failed to realise that his instruction was not yet complete he was further adding that 'buy Rs 2 coupons from the coupon counter and tear it off.'

I was totally surprised by his sentence he was not asking me to bring remainder coupons to him but was trusting me that I will get the remainder coupons and also tear it off on my own. I was really glad and also thankful at the same time that such an atmosphere existed where people trusted each other however this is only because Guru stood in between.

While it was kind of him to think in this way and also the amount involved was not too big but it also reminded me that I have a responsibility to be able to fulfil the trust other people keep in me because of Guru. May God bless that there are more and more pleasant experiences in everybody's life so that trust in each other gets strengthened.

I myself could not go to get the remainder coupons but I asked another saint to go and get it for me and tear it off. She was not able to understand what I meant by tearing it. But when I shared the rationale behind, her surprise came to an end....with smile on her face.

Smile because of 'Ram Rajya'.

What should be my question?

Few years ago, we got the news of Puri Sahib's tour in Bangalore. As an act of encouragement to the youth, we were offered a session where Puri Ji would answer any questions young children would like to ask. I could notice how excited friends were, who wanted to ask so many things from an experienced elder who was like a mentor to each one of us. 
I too wanted to use this opportunity to learn from this soul be it through a Q & A session. However there was a problem.

The problem was I didn't know what to ask - despite spending time in thinking, I could not get hold of any question that would be 'just' appropriate to ask Puri Ji. Most of the questions made no sense, some questions I wasn't sure if were appropriate for the gathering - I was just "question-less". 

I could not decide what would be better in this situation? To ask some question for the sake of asking or let go this wonderful opportunity. In this state of indecisiveness, I rang up a saint for consultation. I explained the situation to her and then asked "What should be my question?".

In her usual composed state she started, " Sunil Ji, You know now instead of thinking what to ask anyone else, I have started to wonder on what could be asked of me. I don't know how to answer if asked that Love was taught to you, why didn't you follow it? You were reminded that forgiveness is important, why did you ignore it? I get worried on what would I reply...."

Our phone conversation continued for another few minutes before call was disconnected.

She didn't suggest a question, neither did she discourage me from asking one but gave me another frame for looking at the same situation. Needless to add that I dropped the idea of asking any question.

I wonder if some day some one would ask me the same question, "What should be my question?"....but definitely this is how I would like to answer.

Coming from ST is Ok

(Drafted in 2012)

With bit of time at hand, these days I often sit with friends who are located in SZ building. Although its a 5-7 mins walk from ST building, and its difficult to walk in shining Sun but still the motivation to spend time with friends and opportunity to hear new things from them takes me to SZ Food Court area.

Quite recently on one such occasion, I was sitting with two friends who were discussing about existence of God. As per their understandings both were keeping their individual views and I was witnessing their interactions. It so happened that at one point of time, both had little difference in opinions. They tried to explain their own views by supporting arguments, but it didn't dissolve the difference. Because of the affection with own's view point, no one wanted to give up. Discussion on that single point continued at least an hour from then, and amidst this one hour period I kept silent. 

When one of them realized that the discussion was going no where, he looked at me. Perhaps with an expectation that I would support him, he asked me to give my opinion on the same matter. Realizing that no one was ready to give up and they had already wasted an hour by just denying the possibility of other side of coin, I just said " I don't know, I have come from ST ". Both of them looked at me with open eyes. What had God to do with me coming from ST?

The discussion some how ended.

And so have ended many other discussions, where I have given absurd statements. I haven't been like this always. I would credit Vivek Ji for this. Vivek Ji hasn't given me a list of such statements but has indeed given direction that purpose of life is not to get into trap of becoming an answering machine. Often in spiritual arena, people assume that one who answers all the questions is more knowledgeable but actually it is one who has transformed his own life.

Perhaps this shaking from Vivek Ji helps me to keep myself aligned wherever there are temptations to jump into such discussions.



Anyhow - the whole point is bhaiya, that your coming from ST is Ok :)

(Unasked)

Whenever news of any relative visiting from US flashed, I used to get really excited. To be honest excitement was not as much for seeing them as it was for getting a chance to visit Airport. That four walled building in Delhi with white lights and sounds of planes always fascinated me in childhood days. Be it exams or holidays, I wanted to be part of the team that went to receive or send off the visitors.

This was in 80s 90s. And then years changed to 21st century.

For job reasons had to travel to UK in Year 2007. The place of work was far off from the nearest mission quarters. To attend Sangat would travel every weekend to Hayes. And most of the times it was road transport - the national express bus service to Central Bus Station. On one such travel, I was caught up in various thoughts when it clicked where I was traveling. The destination was no different from every weekend's travel but perhaps I had given a thought for the first time. London Heathrow Airport !!!

I couldn't resist being astonished on what time had unfolded - that (unasked) wish of visiting Airport was transformed into a fulfilled wish of every week visit to one of the world's busiest Airports. More than astonishment, feelings are of gratitude that I hadn't even asked of something like this but was given. Something that I had actually forgotten with time but He hadn't.

Other day on occassion of Ram Navmi, I had posted a message from Babaji's discourse that "Ram Nav Mei"  which perhaps was read by one mp as "Ram Knows Me". We shared smiles after he mentioned his reading to me. However to be honest there can be so many examples in life such as mentioned above that this seems more true that Ram Knows Me....!!!

Not only I Know Ram, but Ram Knows me ... arre wah!

(Although He knows us all :) )

And the award goes to...

Just finished watching Film fare award distributions. As usual, there were awards for categories - best debut actor male, best debut actor female critics, best film, best director and lots more. There was a round of applause for every award winner, nothing unusual about it but there were also occasions in between when someone walked onto stage and complete audience stood up to listen & clap in respect. It is "these occasions" that kept me thinking and brought me to look back at one of the experiences I had shared few years ago.

I recalled the quote that was recently and earlier heard, "Some demand respect but some command respect". It felt nice to see how everyone stood up for these living (with or without body) legends. I wondered how much effort and time they would have put to make people stand for them. Remarkable!

As it usually happen, a thought follows by another and by another...

One more similar incident happened when we were signing a send-off greeting for Stefan. After we came back to our desks after signing cards, Nav and I started to discuss his card which was full of wishes from colleagues. Literally there was no space left for more people to put their wishes. Nav very rightfully at that moment commented, " When you have it in you, people would like to put words for you..". I understood what he meant by that. Stefan's work - Remarkable and more remarkable was his conduct full of sweetness and kindness. Years have passed since we last worked together but it is always pleasure to look back and remember those projects.

Since we are talking of projects, Stefan and awards - I recall at end of some project together, there were nominations opened for few categories (mostly comic but one). This category was called "Most popular person by virtue of need award". Needless to say Stefan was one of the winners for this award.

On one side it seems little odd to live for appreciation - rather one should focus on improvisation without worrying about how others appreciate it. But for the moment, when it comes to making a contribution, making an impact, giving efforts - one cannot rest until efforts are that will make others stand. There needs to be effort for excellence. Equally important is also to realize and accept what field is for you to excel. 

Excellence should drive you (and me)!!